You know their patterns better than they know yours ? the hour they usually text, the days they go quiet, the apology that always arrives right before the next silence. A circuit either closes or it doesn't. No amount of giving them space will close a connection they're leaving open from their end.
This book hands you the Voltage Check: seven concrete, observable behaviors, tracked for two weeks and scored honestly, so you get a number instead of a feeling. You'll learn what a zero reading actually means, why a sudden burst of attention after you pull back isn't a changed circuit, and how to stop troubleshooting yourself and start reading what's actually in front of you.
You're not too much. You've been trying to power a device that isn't fully plugged in.