This is the story of the devastating, unexpected loss that left Tamara a widow after fifty-eight years of marriage. Her marriage was strong and happy. Neither she nor her husband had any health issues. They had two children, four grandchildren, and three great-grandchildren. They felt truly blessed. One granddaughter was about to get married and couldn't wait to dance with her grandfather at the wedding. Another granddaughter was expecting her first child. Life couldn't have seemed more perfect. Tamara always thought of herself as independent, self-sufficient, and ready for anything. But when tragedy struck, she was blindsided by how unprepared she really was-and by the cascade of challenges that followed. She felt compelled to share her story and help other women be better prepared for the unexpected. In this book, she offers a practical list of what you need to know, based on the many surprises she faced while putting her affairs in order. You'll also read about her sessions with a Medium, as she reached out in hopes of connecting with her late husband-and the astonishing revelations she encountered along the way. Whether you're a believer or a skeptic, her journey will open your eyes. Without warning, Tamara was left behind to ask herself: What the Hell Just Happened? - What the Hell Just Happened? by Tamara L. Miller