Noreen Antao went into her second marriage with high hopes-that the man she loved, and who loved her and her children, would be the light of her life, for the rest of her life. Just before the marriage he revealed to her his deepest secret, something he had revealed to no one; he liked to wear women's clothes. "His coming out of the closet to me, put me in the closet with him." This led them on a 15 year journey of discovery, deeper and deeper into a world of crossdressing, transgenderism, homosexuality, and even B&D. "It was very sad to watch Jason becoming more female than male; I was gradually losing my husband to 'the other woman'." Noreen's experiences off er a rare look into the struggle of fi nding one's true sexuality, and the eff ect that can have on one's spouse, career and family.