The Value of the right WORDS & words of the right values. Your first step might well be to READ all of the author's books as they form the backbone of wisdom. It is open to debate, as we are all different, and if you need to adapt certain meanings/inputs (from those writings), that's fine. Get into the spirit of things, adapt to change and a calm mindset in your own style and manner. Never push things as YOU are the example others should see the need to follow - YOU should seek to become an EXEMPLAR and should act in that manner!